If you have read the book 'Eat, love, pray' from Elizabeth Gilbert, I strongly recommend you to read her new book 'Committed'. In this book she gives valuable insights in the concept of 'marriage', how it is perceived in history, by different cultures, her own family members and by herself. She has done her homework well, used a variety of resources to make the book interesting, funny, serious and easy to read.
While checking out her website, I found this 18 minute speech she gave at a conference.
She cannot only write, but also talk in a very funny, inspirational way.
If you have some time to spare, listen and look to the speech.
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